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if a guy is hitting on u and he is clearly the alpha in his group of guys.. go for the third in command and undermine their whole power structure
In the 18th century it became fashionable for people of “sensibility” (ie. sensitivity) to tremble and faint with strong emotions and be overwhelmed super easily, and later artists like Jane Austen loved to mock the shit outta that, but extreme emotional reactivity, especially to the point of trembling and fainting, is often a symptom of complex trauma or chronic stress, so what if these days we gave fainting ladies a bit of a break and realize their lives may not have been perfect.
Is “your whole body gets paralyzed while watching an episode on the backstory of a character you find extremely relatable” also included in the list?
Yes! This can go from the brief “riveted with interest/frozen in fear” to full-on catatonia for hours or days.
A lot of Early Modern fiction makes sense if you go “All the Super Extra WTF people are traumatized as fuck.” Since Early Modern Europe had some SUPER not-helpful childrearing practices, like farming babies out, that did not promote trauma resilience, and it was also an age where violence, assault, and unexpected death were incredibly pervasive at every walk of life.
Here’s a brief rundown of ordinary symptoms of the traumatic response:
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janelle monae wrote this at 2:30 am from her samsung smart fridge
do u ever wonder abt urself from an external pov??? bc like. everyone is p complicated and contradictory on the inside, but other ppl get a very simplified version of who u r based on ur interactions w them or what they see u doin
like if i was a cartoon character, what archetype would i be? if i was a design, if i was a DESIGNED person, what parts of me would be the most cohesive/emphasized, and which less significant traits would not be perceived at all???? its just bonkers to think abt i guess
I went to a Q&A seminar with Antoni and Karamo and they told us that at Queer Eye auditions Jonathan literally ran from room to room yelling “WHERE IS SHE” over and over again and while everyone assumed it was about the casting director or something it was, in fact, about a Starbucks cup he’d lost, and I need you all to know that Jonathan lives on maximum 24/7. He is a force that cannot be contained
“I put my phone down and can’t find it”, a saga.
“Want me to call it?”
“It’s on silent.”
A tragedy in three parts.
My wife is a super techie person and told me about something thay actually FIXED this problem for me.
There’s an app called IfThisThenThat(ITTT) and you can tell your phone to do all sorts of cool stuff, but the big one for me was that you can set it up so if you get a text with a key phrase(i think the default is “lost phone”) and only that key phrase, it turns on your volume and cranks it to max.
This has helped me so much, I hope it can help some of you.
Reblog to save someone’s phone
You can also log into your Apple or Google account and have the phone ring at full volume even if it’s on silent. It’ll ping the GPS, so you know if it’s where you are, or you left it somewhere.
And it gives you the option to remotely wipe the data, if that’s an issue.
